This is the fourth cause of Difficult Women Orgasm

Indeed, many women who have difficulty achieving orgasm. Studies even show that 75 percent of women never reach climax from intercourse alone (without the help of sex toy or other stimulation), and 10-15 percent are not able to orgasm at all. But despite this a common thing, do not think to leave. After all, sex should satisfy both parties, is not it?
To find the base of your disability, try to see the following four factors:

1. Feel should always control myselfTo get a satisfying sex session, you should really let go of the desire to control or curb. People who always want to control themselves and emotions will be difficult to achieve orgasm. Therefore, to achieve orgasm you really need to fuse and enjoy the sex session without thinking about other things. Learn to be more loose. No need to regulate the expression of facial gestures of the body (for example, to make them less visible aroused), or sound. Just let the game when you both get you out of breath or want to enjoy even further. Do whatever it takes to show that letting go can be a positive experience.
2. Unable to relaxStress due to work load, or sitting in an office all day, also can make us do not realize how tense our muscles. Tense body condition makes it difficult to make myself relax enough to achieve orgasm. If indeed this happens to you, ask your partner to massage your body first. Calculated for foreplay. Thus, the mind also become more open, and the tense muscles relaxed as well.
3. Feeling self-consciousWhen making love, the body will remove the liquids, you will do the positions that are not unusual, and perhaps also the voices you do not normally listen to. If you include people who are basically self-aware, the nature of sexual intimacy that feels "primitive" can hinder your ability to enjoy this session. Why focus on the things that might make you feel nervous or self conscious? After all, everyone did, and it felt good.
4. Embarrassed by his own body shapeIt is also very common in women. Nah confident with a slightly protruding belly, big thighs, or hips are wide. When the mind is only focused on the disappointment because the body does not appear to shrink even if you've eaten rice diet for three months, the opportunity to get the climax is also more narrow. Identify the parts of your body, and learn to love what it is. If the husband does not care about your butt is already down, for example, to what the big deal?

Sources: Sheknows, kompas.com